Update on Dad 6/20/10

Hi, Everyone,

Well, I have a short report today, based on information from my brother John, my brother Alan, and my own brief conversation with Dad today.

John and his daughter Lisa went to visit Dad this week with Lisa's boyfriend, Court. Dad seemed much as he's been, John said. He talked with them about one of the pictures in his room, but was confused about who the people were. (He seems to invent a story about the picture if he can't remember who's who.) John wants to make sure Court will not expect Dad to recognize him the next time he sees him--although Dad's so gracious, Court may not be able to tell that he doesn't recognize him.

My brother Alan called to report that his father-in-law, Darrell, and Darrell's friend, Jeri, visited Dad again today. They said he was very talkative and told them about the pictures in his room. (Alan commented to me that he wasn't sure the information Dad told was accurate. I'm actually curious to know if he tells the same story about the same picture to each visitor or not!)

Darrell mentioned that he'd be phoning Alan and Janice today, and Dad asked how often they spoke and asked Darrell to send his love to both of them.

I also phoned and spoke to Dad today. His voice was strong, and he sounded cheery as always. Although I'm sure the care facility staff talked to him about it being Father's Day today--and probably celebrated in some way--Dad was surprised when I wished him a happy Father's Day.

I didn't have any Jeffrey stories to tell Dad today--my daughter, son-in-law, and grandson have been in Boston for a family get together with my son-in-law's family. I told Dad that I stayed home and worked on the census, but I couldn't think of a single funny story to tell him. I was sorry I couldn't come up with something funny to say because Dad does enjoy a good story!

As we said our goodbyes, we each expressed our love several times--a great way to end our conversation.

I've heard from several people recently about how they enjoy reading my blog--it's good to hear! Thanks to all of you for your interest and love.

Alison